you're telling me
- idiom
- Informal
- "Well, I'm glad you're telling me this," I say.
- So you're telling me
- Now you're telling me
- Okay, you're telling me
Examples
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Oh, you're telling me.
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CHILI: What you're telling me is that you're tired?
Fiction book (1995) -
What your man did is a crime and you're telling me it's different.
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Okay, so you're telling me, all the other brothers are wrong.
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Is that what you're telling me?
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So how come you're telling me this now?
Fiction book (1996) -
"What you're telling me is too far out to be fiction." "Good," Jack said.
Fiction book (1999) -
And now you're telling me you're going to fire me.
Fiction book (1995) -
You're telling me that's for the good of the people?
Synonyms
Say this to show agreement or acceptance
To show something is obvious and to say yes or give permission
A short reply to show you are listening and understand
A quick way to say you understand or that you caught someone doing something
A strong informal shout that shows agreement
An informal exclamation used to show agreement
A strong way to agree with what someone says
Shows that you agree strongly with what someone says
How Agreeing
Surface Forms
Morphology
you're + telling + me
Literally composed from 'you are telling me' (you + are + telling + me), a B1 learner who knows the words can infer the literal sense of being informed. However, its frequent pragmatic use as an emphatic agreement/empathetic response (equivalent to 'I know'/'tell me about it') is an extended, conversational meaning not fully predictable from the parts, so prior exposure is usually needed.
Etymology
You're telling me comes from a simple conversation image: someone is telling me something obvious or difficult that I already know or feel. Saying you're telling me shows strong agreement or understanding, so it now means 'I agree strongly' or 'I know'.