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to wrap around one's little finger

to wrap around one's little finger

3 8.1
To make someone do what you want by charming them
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : tener a alguien en la palma de la mano

Examples

  • That girl has got me wrapped around her little finger.

  • It's amazing how quickly she's managed to get all of us wrapped around her little finger.

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  • well by then Thalia had the first mate wrapped around her little finger

  • He's so charming that he has everyone wrapped around their little finger.

  • The persuasive salesman seemed to have the customers wrapped around his little finger.

  • With her sweet smile, she could easily wrap her friends around her little finger.

Synonyms

to have someone by the balls
vsto wrap around one's little finger
  • Offensive
3 9.9

To have complete power over someone by controlling what they need or fear

wins control through persuasion and charm instead of coercion
to lead by the nose
vsto wrap around one's little finger
  • Informal
3 7.7

Make someone do what you want without them noticing

uses charm or persuasion to gain full control
to play like a violin
vsto wrap around one's little finger
  • Informal
9.0

To trick someone easily so you can get what you want

uses charm and persuasion rather than selfish manipulation

Antonyms

1.8

To let someone or something go free from being held

How Controlled

to dominate
275 3.7
to wrap around one's little finger
  • Informal
3 8.1
to manipulate
382 6.1
influence
806 2.3
to persuade
472 2.7

Surface Forms

Morphology

wrap + around + one's + little + finger

The phrase evokes the literal image of winding something around someone's finger, so there is a visible conceptual link between the parts and the idea of influence, but the specific pragmatic meaning—having complete control or being able to make someone do whatever one wants—is an idiomatic extension that is not directly derivable from the constituent words alone. While similar metaphors exist in some languages, the particular nuance and pragmatic usage usually require prior exposure, so it is only partially transparent to a B1 learner.

Etymology

Wrap around one's little finger comes from the image of winding a thin cord or ribbon to wrap around someone's little finger, so the person is held and guided easily. That's why it now means 'to have complete control over someone'.