to wear out one's welcome
- idiom
- Informal
- I gotta go before I wear out my welcome.
- want to wear out my welcome
Examples
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After a week of visiting, I could tell I was starting to wear out my welcome.
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She stayed with a relative until she, in her words, "wore out her welcome," and would then move on to a different relative.
Academic text (2006) -
My mother called and asked if I'd worn out my welcome.
Fiction book (1992) -
Well, I didn't mean to wear out my welcome.
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You've worn out your welcome at this house, Sam.
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I've worn out my welcome.
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I don't want to wear out my welcome, heh.
Fiction book (2002) -
I don't want to stay too long and wear out my welcome at the party.
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He quickly realized that he had worn out his welcome at his friend's house.
Synonyms
To stay too long as a guest so the host wants you to leave
To stay somewhere longer than you are welcome
Stay somewhere longer than is safe or needed
Antonyms
How Welcome
Surface Forms
Morphology
The verb phrase 'wear out' (to tire or exhaust) combined with 'welcome' (acceptance or goodwill) yields a coherent figurative meaning: to exhaust someone’s goodwill or hospitality by staying too long. This mapping is metaphorical but predictable from the constituents for learners who know the verbal sense and the noun/adjective 'welcome', so it is not fully transparent yet not wholly idiomatic.
Etymology
The idiom wear out one's welcome comes from a simple picture: a guest visits so often that the host's welcome is worn out, like a doormat or path that has been used until it is thin. That's why it means 'to stay too long and annoy people'.