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to wear out one's welcome

to wear out one's welcome

1 7.0
Stay too long and make people feel annoyed
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : agotar la bienvenida
  • I gotta go before I wear out my welcome.
  • want to wear out my welcome

Examples

  • After a week of visiting, I could tell I was starting to wear out my welcome.

  • She stayed with a relative until she, in her words, "wore out her welcome," and would then move on to a different relative.

    Academic text (2006)
  • My mother called and asked if I'd worn out my welcome.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • Well, I didn't mean to wear out my welcome.

  • You've worn out your welcome at this house, Sam.

  • I've worn out my welcome.

  • I don't want to wear out my welcome, heh.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • I don't want to stay too long and wear out my welcome at the party.

  • He quickly realized that he had worn out his welcome at his friend's house.

Synonyms

to wear out your welcome
vsto wear out one's welcome
  • Informal
3 7.0

To stay too long as a guest so the host wants you to leave

covers staying too long in any place or situation, not only as a guest
to outstay
vsto wear out one's welcome
3 5.5

To stay somewhere longer than you are welcome

emphasizes that staying too long causes irritation and loss of goodwill
to linger too long
vsto wear out one's welcome
2 4.6

Stay somewhere longer than is safe or needed

focuses more on causing irritation and loss of goodwill from staying too long

Antonyms

233 1.0

Receive something or someone gladly

leave
  • Formal
148 4.2

Polite permission to leave a person or place

How Welcome

to welcome
233 1.0
to wear out one's welcome
  • Informal
1 7.0
unwelcome
45 4.3

Surface Forms

wearing out one's welcome present participle
wears out one's welcome third person singular
worn out one's welcome past participle

Morphology

wear + out + one's + welcome

The verb phrase 'wear out' (to tire or exhaust) combined with 'welcome' (acceptance or goodwill) yields a coherent figurative meaning: to exhaust someone’s goodwill or hospitality by staying too long. This mapping is metaphorical but predictable from the constituents for learners who know the verbal sense and the noun/adjective 'welcome', so it is not fully transparent yet not wholly idiomatic.

Etymology

The idiom wear out one's welcome comes from a simple picture: a guest visits so often that the host's welcome is worn out, like a doormat or path that has been used until it is thin. That's why it means 'to stay too long and annoy people'.