to lower one's sights
- idiom
- Informal
- Realizing the project was too ambitious, the team chose to lower their sights and focus on smaller milestones.
Examples
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He had to lower his sights from his dream of becoming an astronaut to a more attainable career in engineering.
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Well, maybe it's time to just lower your sights a little bit.
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I mean, lower your sights a bit.
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How we lower our sights.
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Is it any wonder that we have lowered our sights, as it were, and sought our deepest satisfactions in this-worldly betterment?
Academic text (2001) -
In spite of the fact that over the last several years, Americans have been forced to lower our sights in a larger sense, which now includes not only gazing at Mel Gibson's butt, but at the lower end of a divided body politic as well, we still don't know how or what to think about what we see.
Academic text (1994) -
After months of struggling, she decided to lower her sights and aim for a more achievable job.
Synonyms
Accept less than you wanted or hoped for
To accept something worse than what you want or deserve
Start to think and act in a realistic way after being excited
To become less confident and not try as hard after problems
Limit how much you hope for to avoid disappointment
Antonyms
How Ambitious
Surface Forms
Morphology
The verb 'lower' clearly means to reduce and 'one's sights' uses 'sights' metaphorically for aims or expectations (cf. 'set one's sights on'). The meaning is compositionally motivated but depends on a metaphorical extension of 'sight' to 'goal', so a B1 learner who knows the words might infer it but not reliably without prior exposure.
Etymology
Lower one's sights may come from aiming with a gun: if you lower the sights you aim lower at a closer, easier target. That's why the phrase means 'to reduce your goals or expectations'.