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to bend someone's will

to bend someone's will

7.1
Persuade someone to do what you want
  • idiom
translation icon : doblar la voluntad
  • The leader sought to bend the committee's will to his own agenda.

Examples

  • Despite intense negotiations, he refused to let them bend his will.

  • He tried to bend my will with flattery.

  • They used every tactic, but they could not bend her will.

  • Don't bend her will!

  • The charismatic speaker was able to bend everyone's will in favor of the new policy.

  • Despite their attempts, they could not bend her will to their demands.

  • She used her charming personality to bend his will and get what she wanted.

Synonyms

to force
vsto bend someone's will
2.3

To make someone do something by using power or pressure

relies on persuasion or influence rather than outright compulsion
to convince
vsto bend someone's will
2.7

Make someone believe something is true or agree to do something

aims more at securing compliance than proving truth
to persuade
vsto bend someone's will
472 2.7

To make someone agree or do something by giving reasons

uses influence more broadly not only argument or appeal
to manipulate
vsto bend someone's will
382 6.1

To control people or things in a clever, often dishonest way

is more about secret control or dishonesty than open influence
to sway
vsto bend someone's will
81 3.6

To cause someone to change their opinion or decision

emphasizes influence rather than using strong pressure or force
to win over
vsto bend someone's will
54 3.3

Get someone to support or agree with you

seeks support or agreement rather than mere obedience
to coax
vsto bend someone's will
54 4.1

To gently persuade someone by being kind and patient

can involve stronger pressure or force to gain compliance
to induce
vsto bend someone's will
51 4.9

Persuade someone to do something

targets changing opinion and gaining compliance rather than only causing action
to prevail
vsto bend someone's will
  • Formal
23 6.7

To persuade someone to do something after repeated effort

is about influence or persuasion broadly, not necessarily repeated effort
to change someone's mind
vsto bend someone's will
18 3.0

Make someone think differently about something

focuses on gaining compliance with your wishes rather than only opinion change
to cajole
vsto bend someone's will
15 7.7

To persuade someone to do something by gentle talk and praise

may instead use direct influence or stronger pressure rather than flattery
to prevail upon
vsto bend someone's will
4 7.7

To persuade someone who does not want to do something to do it

does not require repeated effort, focusing on influence or persuasion broadly
to bring around
vsto bend someone's will
  • Informal
3 3.6

To cause someone to change their mind

aims to get someone to follow your wishes rather than just accept ideas
to lead by the nose
vsto bend someone's will
  • Informal
3 7.7

Make someone do what you want without them noticing

involves total control rather than persuasion to change opinion or comply
to inveigle
vsto bend someone's will
  • Formal
2 9.5

To get someone to do something by flattering or tricking them

often involves sneaky or dishonest tactics rather than open persuasion
to bring pressure to bear
vsto bend someone's will
  • Formal
1 6.0

To use influence to persuade someone to do something

may rely on persuasion and influence alone rather than forceful pressure
to turn up the pressure
vsto bend someone's will
1 3.9

To try to make someone change what they do by making them feel more stress

may use milder persuasion rather than increasing pressure to force action
to twist someone's arm
vsto bend someone's will
  • Informal
1 4.4

Get someone to agree or do something by pressuring them

may instead use gentler persuasion or appeals rather than pressure
to bring round
vsto bend someone's will
  • UK
4.4

To persuade someone to accept your idea or plan

focuses on making someone comply with your wishes rather than only opinion change
to swing over
vsto bend someone's will
5.8

Make someone change their opinion or decision

may not be decisive, covering any influence that changes mind or gains compliance

Antonyms

311 2.2

Act against authority, rules or change

How Persuasive

to bend someone's will
7.1
to persuade
472 2.7
to encourage
2.3
to suggest
1.6

Surface Forms

bend someone's will infinitive
bending someone's will present participle
bends someone's will third person singular
bent someone's will past participle

Morphology

bend + someone's + will

The phrase is a metaphorical extension of the physical verb 'bend' (to change shape) applied to 'will' (determination), so the sense 'make someone change their mind/comply' is partially derivable from the parts. This bodily-to-mental metaphor is common across languages, but because it requires metaphorical inference rather than strictly compositional meaning, a B1 learner would likely need some exposure to be fully confident.

Etymology

Bend someone's will uses the simple image of bend, forcing something out of its straight shape, and will, a person's choice. So, like bending a piece of metal to a new shape, to bend someone's will means 'to make someone change their mind' or 'to make them do what you want'.