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to be one's own man

to be one's own man

7 6.5
To make your own decisions without other people telling you what to do
  • idiom
translation icon : ser independiente
  • After years of following others' opinions, he finally decided to be his own man and make his own choices.
  • prove he's his own man
  • want to be his own man
  • always been his own man

Examples

  • 20-year-old Nathan, however, would seem to be his own man in such matters and has released a statement in which he urges his fellow southwest Virginians to support Obama's challenger in 2012.

    Blog text (4)
  • You will always be my baby, but I know that you're your own man now.

  • It's time to be my own man.

  • My son just needed to break free... be his own man.

  • I am my own man.

  • I'm my own man now.

  • He wants to be his own man.

  • He had to get away, be on his own, be his own man!

    Fiction book (1995)
  • He is his own man, something of a rarity in the world of economists.

    Blog text (23)
  • In his 31 years on the bench, Justice Byron White has managed to be his own man—someone who resists stereotyping.

    Academic text (1993)

Synonyms

to do one's own thing
vsto be one's own man
  • Jargon
15 4.2

Act on your own without following what other people want

is about deciding independently instead of being influenced by others
on one's own two feet
vsto be one's own man
  • Informal
12 4.2

Able to live and support yourself without help from others

is about independence in decisions rather than just self support
to have a mind of one's own
vsto be one's own man
9 6.5

To think for yourself and make your own decisions

is about choosing freely without influence from others
to go one's own way
vsto be one's own man
5 6.2

Choose your own path in life

is about making independent decisions rather than following others
to stand on one's own two feet
vsto be one's own man
  • Informal
5 4.4

To support yourself without help from other people

emphasizes making independent choices, not only personal self support
to paddle one's own canoe
vsto be one's own man
  • Archaic
2 7.5

To be independent and take care of yourself without help

is focused on choosing freely, not only surviving without help

Antonyms

182 2.8

Relying on someone else for help or support

How Independent

self-reliance
17 4.1
to be one's own man
7 6.5
to go it alone
  • Informal
26 5.3

Surface Forms

be one's own man infinitive
been one's own man past participle
being one's own man present participle
is one's own man third person singular

Morphology

be + one's + own + man

The meaning is directly built from the constituents: 'be' (to exist as), 'one's own' (belonging to oneself) and 'man' (person), so the phrase literally conveys being a person who belongs to oneself — i.e. independent. This possessive + noun composition is cross-linguistically common and follows normal English patterns, so a B1 learner who knows the words should be able to infer the intended meaning.

Etymology

The phrase be one's own man may come from the image of a person standing alone in charge of themselves, literally their own man, not under someone else's control. So it means 'to be independent' and make your own decisions.