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you're telling me

you're telling me

153 8.5
To say this to show you strongly agree with an obvious or unpleasant point
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : ni me digas
  • "Well, I'm glad you're telling me this," I say.
  • So you're telling me
  • Now you're telling me
  • Okay, you're telling me

Examples

  • Oh, you're telling me.

  • CHILI: What you're telling me is that you're tired?

    Fiction book (1995)
  • What your man did is a crime and you're telling me it's different.

  • Okay, so you're telling me, all the other brothers are wrong.

  • Is that what you're telling me?

  • So how come you're telling me this now?

    Fiction book (1996)
  • "What you're telling me is too far out to be fiction." "Good," Jack said.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • And now you're telling me you're going to fire me.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • You're telling me that's for the good of the people?

Synonyms

yeah
vsyou're telling me
  • Informal
2.0

A short reply to show you are listening and understand

expresses stronger agreement and shared feeling about an obvious point
of course
vsyou're telling me
1.0

To show something is obvious and to say yes or give permission

adds emotional understanding and often reacts to unpleasant obviousness
and how
vsyou're telling me
  • Informal
250 8.6

Shows that you agree strongly with what someone says

is used more to show understanding or sympathy with a remark
right
vsyou're telling me
  • Informal
106 1.0

Say this to show agreement or acceptance

carries stronger empathy and often responds to unpleasant truths
you said it
vsyou're telling me
  • Informal
77 7.6

A strong way to agree with what someone says

is more empathetic and replies to obvious or unpleasant facts
right on
vsyou're telling me
  • Archaic
53 7.7

A strong informal shout that shows agreement

leans more toward empathetic understanding of an obvious or unpleasant point
gotcha
vsyou're telling me
  • Informal
27 8.1

A quick way to say you understand or that you caught someone doing something

focuses more on showing agreement and emotional understanding rather than just noticing
word
vsyou're telling me
  • Slang
9.9

An informal exclamation used to show agreement

is fuller, showing sympathy or clear understanding of the situation

How Agreeing

you're telling me
  • Informal
153 8.5
indeed
1.0
to agree
1.0

Surface Forms

Morphology

you're + telling + me

Literally composed from 'you are telling me' (you + are + telling + me), a B1 learner who knows the words can infer the literal sense of being informed. However, its frequent pragmatic use as an emphatic agreement/empathetic response (equivalent to 'I know'/'tell me about it') is an extended, conversational meaning not fully predictable from the parts, so prior exposure is usually needed.

Etymology

You're telling me comes from a simple conversation image: someone is telling me something obvious or difficult that I already know or feel. Saying you're telling me shows strong agreement or understanding, so it now means 'I agree strongly' or 'I know'.