you're telling me
- idiom
- Informal
- "Well, I'm glad you're telling me this," I say.
- So you're telling me
- Now you're telling me
- Okay, you're telling me
Examples
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Oh, you're telling me.
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CHILI: What you're telling me is that you're tired?
Fiction book (1995) -
What your man did is a crime and you're telling me it's different.
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Okay, so you're telling me, all the other brothers are wrong.
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Is that what you're telling me?
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So how come you're telling me this now?
Fiction book (1996) -
"What you're telling me is too far out to be fiction." "Good," Jack said.
Fiction book (1999) -
And now you're telling me you're going to fire me.
Fiction book (1995) -
You're telling me that's for the good of the people?
Synonyms
A short reply to show you are listening and understand
To show something is obvious and to say yes or give permission
Shows that you agree strongly with what someone says
Say this to show agreement or acceptance
A strong way to agree with what someone says
A strong informal shout that shows agreement
A quick way to say you understand or that you caught someone doing something
An informal exclamation used to show agreement
How Agreeing
Surface Forms
Morphology
you're + telling + me
Literally composed from 'you are telling me' (you + are + telling + me), a B1 learner who knows the words can infer the literal sense of being informed. However, its frequent pragmatic use as an emphatic agreement/empathetic response (equivalent to 'I know'/'tell me about it') is an extended, conversational meaning not fully predictable from the parts, so prior exposure is usually needed.
Etymology
You're telling me comes from a simple conversation image: someone is telling me something obvious or difficult that I already know or feel. Saying you're telling me shows strong agreement or understanding, so it now means 'I agree strongly' or 'I know'.