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to mind one's Ps and Qs

to mind one's Ps and Qs

1 8.6
Be careful about how you behave and what you say to be polite
  • idiom
  • Archaic
translation icon : comportarse bien
  • As a guest at the party, it's important to mind your Ps and Qs when talking to others.

Examples

  • If you want to make a good impression, you should always mind your Ps and Qs around new colleagues.

  • I figure as long as I mind my Ps and Qs and don't tip over into dickery, John and others will be (mostly) cool with it.

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  • During the meeting, please mind your Ps and Qs to maintain a polite atmosphere.

Synonyms

to mind how
vsto mind one's Ps and Qs
  • UK
2 6.6

Be careful about how you act or speak

focuses on polite behavior and careful speech rather than only actions
to mind one's language
vsto mind one's Ps and Qs
  • Informal
1 7.2

Be careful not to use rude or hurtful words

covers wider polite behavior and careful actions as well as speech
to watch one's mouth
vsto mind one's Ps and Qs
  • Informal
1 7.5

Be careful what you say to avoid offending someone

emphasizes general politeness and careful behavior rather than only avoiding offense

Antonyms

27 1.8

Lack of politeness or respect for other people

1 4.1

Rude or disrespectful behavior toward other people

How Polite

to mind one's Ps and Qs
  • Archaic
1 8.6
to behave
747 1.0

Surface Forms

minded one's Ps and Qs past participle
minding one's Ps and Qs present participle
minds one's Ps and Qs third person singular

Morphology

mind + one's + Ps + and + Qs

Though 'mind' means 'be careful', the phrase 'one's Ps and Qs' is an idiomatic reference (with unclear historical origins) to manners and behaviour rather than to the literal letters P and Q. A B1 learner who knows the individual words would not be able to derive the meaning 'be polite/behave carefully' from the constituents, so the expression is opaque.

Etymology

Mind one's Ps and Qs may come from old printing shops, where workers had to watch the small metal letters P and Q because they look similar and could be put the wrong way. So the phrase now means 'to be careful about how you behave and what you say'.