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to kiss someone's ring

to kiss someone's ring

8.9
To show too much respect and do what a person in power wants
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : besar el anillo de alguien
  • And as I observed, all these Italian males lined up to kiss his ring.

Examples

  • You gotta kiss his ring like he was the Pope.

  • In the world of business, some employees kiss someone's ring to secure important promotions.

  • I wanna kiss his ring and have it go:

  • Many politicians feel they must kiss someone's ring to gain favor with influential leaders.

  • During negotiations, it is common for junior employees to kiss someone's ring in order to show respect to their superiors.

Synonyms

to kiss up
vsto kiss someone's ring
  • Informal
16 7.9

Say nice things to someone to get their help or a reward

is focused on showing respect rather than strategic flattery for gain
to kowtow
vsto kiss someone's ring
12 9.2

To behave very obediently to please a person in power

is submissive but less extreme showing respect rather than full obedience
to kiss ass
vsto kiss someone's ring
  • Offensive
8 9.5

To try to please someone in power to get an advantage

is about respect and submission not just personal flattery for gain
to bow and scrape
vsto kiss someone's ring
  • Archaic
3 9.4

Behave too politely and humbly to please someone

is submissive too but often shows respect rather than seeking favour
to bend the knee
vsto kiss someone's ring
1 8.4

To show loyalty and obey a powerful person

is about showing respect or deference rather than symbolic submission
to lick someone's boot
vsto kiss someone's ring
  • Offensive
8.9

Praise or act very friendly toward a boss to get something for yourself

is servile as well but aims to show respect not gain advantage

Antonyms

178 3.7

Openly refuse to obey someone or seem to resist a force like time

How Deferential

to grovel
42 7.4
to kiss someone's ring
  • Informal
8.9
to bow down
30 3.7
to defer
  • Formal
36 6.2
respect
1.0

Surface Forms

kiss someone's ring infinitive
kissed someone's ring past participle
kissing someone's ring present participle
kisses someone's ring third person singular

Morphology

kiss + someone's + ring

The literal image of physically kissing a person's ring clearly suggests deference or submission, so a B1 learner who knows 'kiss', 'someone's', and 'ring' can infer a basic meaning of showing respect. However, the phrase carries specific pragmatic and sometimes pejorative nuances (overly servile or ritualized deference) and relies on cultural practices that are not fully predictable from the parts, so full understanding typically requires exposure.

Etymology

The phrase kiss someone's ring comes from a real action in courts and churches, where people would kiss a leader's ring to show respect or loyalty. That's why today it means 'to show respect or submission', often in a way that seems too eager.