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bane of one's existence

bane of one's existence

4 7.8
A person or thing that causes a lot of trouble and annoyance for someone
  • idiom
translation icon : maldición de la existencia
  • Excel is the bane of my existence.
  • just the bane of one's existence

Examples

  • My naturally curly hair has been the bane of my existence.

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  • For years, Frank had been the bane of my existence, always making my life difficult.

  • This man is the bane of my existence.

  • That woman is the bane of my existence.

  • That tape has been the bane of my existence.

  • It's the bane of my existence.

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  • You have been the bane of my existence since they voted you apartment manager.

  • Poachers are the bane of my existence.

  • As a frequent business traveler, expenses are the bane of my existence.

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  • WordPress had unfortunately become a bane of my existence as it would not let me post pics accurately, and I could not figure out why.

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Synonyms

pain in the ass
vsbane of one's existence
  • Offensive
109 9.2

A person or thing that is very annoying and difficult to deal with

is a continuous cause of misery, not only blunt annoyance
nuisance
vsbane of one's existence
62 3.6

A person or thing that annoys others and causes trouble

is more severe and brings continuous misery and distress
bother
vsbane of one's existence
29 2.1

A thing that causes trouble or annoyance

is a continuous source of misery rather than occasional trouble
annoyance
vsbane of one's existence
21 3.2

A person or thing that bothers you

is stronger, causing ongoing misery and deep distress
royal pain
vsbane of one's existence
  • Offensive
8 8.0

A very annoying person or thing that causes trouble

is continuously causing misery rather than just strong annoyance
thorn in someone's side
vsbane of one's existence
  • Informal
1 6.3

A person or thing that keeps causing trouble for someone

is ongoing and causes sustained misery rather than occasional trouble
thorn in the flesh
vsbane of one's existence
  • Informal
1 7.0

Something that keeps causing you trouble or worry

is a continuous cause of misery and deep distress

Antonyms

joy
793 1.0

A strong feeling of great happiness

269 1.4

A good thing or situation that brings happiness

How Troublesome

to scourge
  • Formal
1 9.1
torment
  • NSFW
70 5.6
bane of one's existence
4 7.8
nuisance
62 3.6
annoyance
21 3.2

Surface Forms

Morphology

bane + of + one + existence

The noun 'bane' already encodes 'a source of significant distress' and the of-phrase 'of one's existence' simply specifies that this source affects someone's life; thus the overall meaning is directly derivable from the parts. The structure (noun + of-phrase) is a standard compositional pattern found across languages, so a B1 learner who knows the constituents should understand it.

Etymology

Bane of one's existence comes from the old word bane, meaning a 'poison' or thing that kills, and existence, meaning 'life'. The picture is of something that harms your life over and over, so it now means 'a person or thing that causes constant misery or trouble'.